On that day, I had a scheduled deep tissue massage appointment . I arrived at the client's home, set up my equipment, and instructed the client to lie face down on a massage table so we could begin. What followed, however, was a situation that was both unexpected and uncomfortable. The client entered the room fully undressed not just in his underwear as I had anticipated and emmediately asked me if I provide "happy endings'' As a lincensed massage therapist, I've always operated with the utmost professionalism and integrity. I calmly and respectfully informed him that my services are strickly therapeautic and that I do not offer anything beyond the professional treatments outlined in my training. The client seemed taken aback but continued to press the issue, and it became clear that he had misunderstood the nature of the service I provide. At this point, I made the decision to end the session immediately. I explained that, in accordance with my policies and professionalism, he would still be required to pay for the full session time he had booked. Despite his attempt to share personal struggles and gain symphathy, I remained firm, and focused on ensuring that both my boundaries and business standards were respected.

This experience, though uncomfortable, reminded me of the importance of maintaining boundaries in the industry. For those of us in the wellness and spa field, it's crucial that we are clear with our clients about what services we offer and ensure that our work environment remains respectful and professional. As therapists, we are not only providing physical treatment but also creating a space of trust and healing, and that must be protected at all cost.

This was the only time in my 13+ years in the industry that I've been asked for something inappropriate. While it can be uncomfortable, I see it as a teaching moment, both for myself and for others in the industry. Setting boundaries is not only important for maintaining our professionalism but also for ensuring that clients feel safe and respected.

I've always taken pride in offering high-quality, therapeutic experiences that help people relax, heal, and feel better. That's my focus, and I make sure to communicate that clearly. At the end of the day, we all deserve to work in environments where we feel safe, respected and valued.

So, if you ever visit a therapist or wellness professional, remember that they are there to support your well-being, and its essential to approach the experience with respect and understanding. I'm proud to be part of this amazing industry, and my commitment to providing exceptional, ethical services is unwavering.